The statistics when it comes to infedility are way higher than i ever would have thought. i think most people will commit some form of cheating at some point in their life, kissing, fooling around, not necessarily always sex. but generally i think you can assume that it will always eventually end up there if you carry on with contact.
Im in two minds about monogamy. Ive been in a relationship a long time and i am only young and while i love my partner i still get crushes on other guys and i have strayed in the past. i feel guilty about it at the time and then i get spurts of guilt here and there but on the whole it doesnt affect me as badly as it should. I believe him when he says he hasnt strayed but then i say the same thing, and granted he really doesnt seem like the kind of guy that would, but you never know i suppose.
Honestly i think women do cheat more, but only slightly, but we think about sex way less than men.
I do believe in marriage. And i know thats a bit hypocritical because marriage should be based on honesty. but my relationship with my partner works. Regardless of what ive done.